Unit 11.50: Roadmapping a sitaution to prevent further damage

Assess the situation.  

Whatt Outcome do I really wnant?


What are the possible Outcomes -- Especially consider the bad ones.

Break it down -- possible outcomes if I do this or that...

Analye the situation

Consider what is in front of me>  Possible OUtcoems?

And what's in back of me  (Why do I feel so strongly about this?)

What is the best way to get the outcome that I want.?

WHat should i do?

WHat do I want to do?

How can I do it?

WHat are the alternatives. 

The whole time -- we must consider the pissible risks.  

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